People may avoid you if you do this…

Most of us believe we're great listeners, but often we’re actually talking too much.

Way too much!

Effective communication is not just about speaking; it’s about truly listening.

Give the person you're speaking to some ... space.

Before you respond, take a moment to pause.

This brief pause allows the other person to continue or add something meaningful. It demonstrates that you value their input and are genuinely engaged in the conversation.

For example, think about a time when you’ve been in a conversation, with a friend, and realized afterward that you dominated the discussion.

You kept offering advice, sharing your own stories, or jumping in before they finished.

In doing so, you likely missed out on hearing their full perspective or what they truly needed from the conversation.

People who truly listen are highly valued because it’s so rare to be genuinely heard.

When you make the effort to pause and listen, you’re not just improving your communication—you’re building stronger, more meaningful connections.

So next time you’re in a conversation, try pausing before you speak.

You might be surprised at what you learn and how it enhances your relationships.