Why inside-out compliments work every time

We’re all familiar with compliments like “You look great today” or “Nice outfit.”

But what if we shifted our focus from appearance to something deeper?

Instead of starting with a compliment about someone's looks,

try something like, “I love how your energy brightens the room!”

Why does this work?

Complimenting someone’s personality, actions, or impact first feels much more personal and meaningful.

It shows you’re paying attention to who they are rather than just what they look like.

While appearance-based compliments are nice, they can feel superficial.

Complimenting from the inside out ...

goes beyond surface level and creates a more authentic connection.

Complimenting from the inside out is powerful because:

- It boosts self-esteem: Compliments about someone’s actions or mindset help them remember their intrinsic value, rather than just their external appearance.

- It strengthens relationships: Recognizing someone's behaviour or character creates stronger, more trusting connections because it shows you genuinely notice their contributions.

- It inspires positive change: Acknowledging someone's positive qualities or actions reinforces those behaviours, encouraging them to continue shining in those areas.

Try it and see!